Not so daily thinker

I do not know much about it. But
I am very sure that the word Premanism is not on your Oxford English
dictionary.

There is this news about a girl
gang that bullies their new recruits in Central Java.They called themselves as Nero Gang.

The member is arrested by the
police recently because a new recruit tell the police about their activities.
They also manage to tape their activity with Hand phone…which is a very stupid
idea considering what they have done is against the law.

I though that only happen in the
movie or the world of man….but i was wrong, even now the girls just doing it
without hesitation.

When the police ask them why they
did that, they said that they did not know why. It’s jut that all of their
senior doing it to them a couple years back when they are stills a new recruit,
its like walk blindly to something that you did not know the cause.

I believe that a lot of us
sometimes doing it too. We do something that we do not know why…the why
something that we forget is. We loose our passion for something else which
seems more valuable…but it does not actually.

This event of course jolts all
the member parents, junior or senior. The lack of understanding about their
daughter activity is something that they should be ashamed of. The Nero gang
member is all girls from between 15 to 19 years old. How could you have a
slightly idea about it? Especially when you are at central Java, when the
cultures still suppress the woman in society to act aggressively in all social
aspect of live. We are talking about the most modest people in the land of Indonesia.

They often say sorry for
something they just want to do or they did not do. Paternalistic hierarchy in
Javanese people is so subtle that somehow a girl be force to married when they
just 15 years old because their parents said so.

Like it or not this is what happening
in Indonesia
and we have to deal with it. If there is such things in Central java, who could
guarantee that it is not happen in another part of Indonesia, such as Jakarta
or Surabaya which are among the biggest city in Indonesia.

Ever since the STPDN incident
last year this is the biggest news about premanism in
Indonesia.

i believe in you

Lonely
The path you have chosen
A restless road
No turning back
One day you
Will find your light again
Don’t you know
Don’t let go
Be Strong

Follow your heart
Let your love lead through the darkness
Back to a place you once knew
I believe I believe I believe
In you
Follow your dreams
Be yourself, an angel of kindness
There’s nothing that you can not do
I believe I believe I believe
In you

Tout seul
Tu t’en iras tout seul
Coeur ouvert
A l’univers
Poursuis ta quête
Sans regarder derrière
N’attends pas
Que le jour
Se lève

Suis ton étoile
Va jusqu’où ton rêve t’emporte
Un jour tu le toucheras
Si tu crois si tu crois si tu crois
En toi
Suis ta lumière
N’éteins pas la flamme que tu portes
Au fonds de toi souviens-toi
Que je crois que je crois que je crois
En toi

Someday I’ll find you
Someday you’ll find me to
And when I hold you close
I’ll know that it’s true

sung by: Celine Dion & Il Divo

When i heard this song the first time i feel so uplifting.This is a good and positive song and i wish i could sing it infront of my friends.

The Lyrics is simply AMAZING !

It’s been a long while since i write in this blog.It’s not because i don’t blog at all, it’s just that I’ve been doing it on my other blog.
It’s so fun with my life for a couple of month, you can say that I’m in love or in the mood or in upstream of life or whatever you like.

The flowers bloom, the birds sing,the sun shine,i catch a cold, the traffic jam it’s was beautiful in my eyes (but not when I’m late to the office).

Gradually my life is fill with love,needlessness as i say..it’s kinda weird when you focus life on others you could not find a single problem in your own.It bring me a new understanding about how life works.

So guys..if you think you get a lot of problem with your life maybe you just don’t help enough people with theirs…try it…i dare you to step outside of your life a while and help others with theirs.

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Dapet artikelnya dari sini nih.

Sedih ga sih kalau ngebaca artikel kaya gini ? Masa iya dari 30 orang siswa (iya beneran….cuman 30 kok) kaga ada yang lulus.

Gue kaga pernah ngerti kenapa juga (awalnya) harus ada ujian nasional .Standarisasi ?? kalau memang itu jawabannya ..apakah negara kita sudah mampu mendukung standarisasi nasional secara mental (ini yang utama soalnya proyek nasional duitnya kan gede),infrastruktur (misalnya kertas,percetakan,tinta,distribusi…ini kan duit juga) dan juga sarana (yang bikin soal siapa ? yang periksa siapa ? dibayarnya berapa ?).

Satu hal yang gue selalu takutkan adalah kalau waktu pemeriksaan dilakukan (kalau manual ada ga yah yang mau secara teliti melakukannya ??) apakah pemeriksaan dilakukan dengan sebenarnya karena menyangkut hidup anak tersebut (emang enak ngulang sekolah cuman gara2 pensil 2Bnya bohong bohongan ?).

Kenapa sih tidak menyerahkan proses penyeleksian kompetensi itu kepada perguruan (yang lebih) tinggi ? Toh ga semua yang lulus SMA (dan setaranya) mau kerja.Tapi mereka butuh ijasah tersebut….

Ngomong2 soal ijasah…apakah penting Ijazah itu di dapat dari hasil ujian nasional atau sekolah…emang ada jaminan bakalan di gaji lebih tinggi  (lah tujuan kerja kan dapet gaji bukan ?) daripada ijazahnya cuman dari hasil ujian lokal.Bagi si pemberi kerja,emang yakin yang punya ijazah nasional lebih kompeten ?kalau semua unsur yang di nilai adalah bersifat sikap: Rajin, jujur,ulet,tidak mudah menyerah,mau belajar,cepat belajar,solution oriented,leadership…semua hal yang kita kaga pelajarin di sekolahan…(Sadly).Well kita ngabisin waktu ampir 20 tahun (sampe lulus S1) untuk hal yang kita pakai hanya 1/3 dari waktu kita hidup di dunia ini (asumsi tidur 8 jam sehari).Sementara yang terpenting 2/3nya harus kita belajar secara amatir di luar sekolah.

Oh sekolah…ibu2 senang dan bangga sekali anaknya yang berusia 3 tahun bisa lancar berhitung walaupun anak itu suka menggigit kakaknya,mencuri permen temannya dan memukul susternya.

kita dinilai dari apa yang ada di otak daripada apa yang ada di hati (dua-duanya kaga kelihatan loh).

OH Ujian……

Caller: Hello, can I speak to Annie Wan (anyone)?

Operator : Yes, you can speak to me.

Caller: No, I want to speak to Annie Wan (anyone)!

Operator: You are talking to someone! Who is this?

Caller: I’m Sam Wan (Someone). And I need to talk to Annie Wan (anyone)!  It’s urgent.

Operator: I know you are someone and you want to talk to anyone! But what’s this urgent matter about?

Caller: Well… just tell my sister Annie Wan (anyone) that our brother Noel Wan (no one)?as involved in an accident.

Noel Wan (no one) got injured and now Noel Wan (no one) is being sent to the hospital.

Right now, Avery Wan (everyone) is on his way to the hospital.

Operator: Look if no one was injured and no one was sent to the hospital,

then the accident isn’t an urgent matter! You may find this hilarious but

I don’t have time for this!

Caller: You are so rude! Who are you?

Operator: I’m Saw Lee (Sorry).

Caller: Yes! You should be sorry. Now give me your name!!

Gara-gara baca cyber kompas gue jadi mikir2 sebenernya enak ga sih jadi laki-laki ?
Ini adalah beberapa hal yang gue list (inspite of what the article said) enaknya jadi cowo.With all due respect gue kaga bermaksud untuk menyinggung perempuan manapun.

1. Cowo ga perlu menstruasi , wah ini gue rasa rahmat besar…ampyun deh kalau gue harus merasakan itu, sudah cukup ngeliatin betapa menderitanya adik gue waktu menstruasi.

2. Tentu saja cowo jadi tidak PMS, emosi (keseluruhan bukan cuman amarah doang) adalah hal yang sangat berharga bagi cowo (makanya jarang diperlihatkan), aduh kebayang kalau harus memutuskan hal2 penting dengan emosi.

3. Cowo tidak melahirkan , wadoh kalau sering2 nonton national geographic mengenai proses maternity gue bersyukur kaga melahirkan…with all the glory yang dirasakan perempuan…tetep ajah gue kaga mauuuuuuuuu….

4. Cowo tidak perlu se njelimet cewe dalam urusan badan (not that it’s not a good things) tapi gue kebayang ajah harus nyalon,sanggul,make up berjam jam huaaaaaaa…untuk menghadiri sesuatu that only last an hour.

5. Cowo lebih bebas….gue ga tau ini karena kultur atau bukan…tapi cowo bisa buka baju di mana saja walaupun gendut atau krempeng hehehehehehe…bisa kencing di pohon mana saja (walaupun di pinggir jalan).ga perlu ngurusin kuku yang harus di kuteks atau milih celana dalam warna warni dan bercorak bagus atau lucu.

Well, ga apa2 deh tidak berumur panjang…gue lebih mentingin kualitas daripada kuantitas hidup gue.Trus, masalah maskulinitas dan tekanan sosiologi gue rasa itu mah udah dari jama baheula ..ngapain lagi di omongin.

MISSING YOU

By: Meja

I miss your love

since you’ve been gone

i find it hard to go on

summer sky don’t mean a thing

i thought i’d always be strong

i got the feeling inside and it’s making my heart cry

Cause i’m missing you and it’s making me blue

I’m missing you, what can i do ?

I’m thousand miles away, from you

So here i am and everythings new

I should be happy in love

But all i know i look deep in my eyes

i never felt so alone

and this feeling inside it’s making my heart cry

Cause i’m missing you and it’s making me blue

I’m missing you what can i do ?

I’m thousand miles away….

So what the meaning of this

To be living like this

It ain’t no fun at all

I wonder where are you now ?

I miss your love

since you’ve been gone

i find it hard to go on

and this feeling inside i just break down and cry

Cause i’m missing you and it’s making me blue

I’m missing you what can i do ?

I’m thousand miles away….

Cause i’m missing you and it’s making me blue

I’m missing you what can i do ?

Duh ileh kalau lagi kangen sama seseorang.Jadi inget masa masa muda dulu ketika bener2 thousand miles away from you.^_^

Kenapa juga harus ada yang kaya begini kalau tau akhirnya sangat sulit untuk di jalani..tapi begitulah kalau cerita mengenai lagu itu…kadang we just need the feeling of it.

Poor Old Man   

  An old man is sitting on a park bench crying. A young man is walking by and asks him why he’s crying. The old man says, "I’m retired and I have lots of money, a huge luxury apartment, a beautiful 25 year old wife who loves me and has sex with me twice a day"

The young man says, "Well then why the hell are you crying!?"

The old man replies, "I can’t remember where I live!"

From http://jokes.comedycentral.com/jokeOfDay.asp

Comments:

Sometimes in this life we cannot defy our age.Some says age had nothing to do with maturenity.But i say it has something to do with it, more or less.You cannot expect people who sees many, knows nothing.When old people give me an advise about a thing..i usually respect them.But, again sometimes you just could not give what you didn’t have.Thats why we have to learn it while we still can.

So what’s with this stop to learn and start living mumbo jumbo ?

What’s with let it flow atittude ?Well it’s nothing wrong with it if you don’t plan to influence others,the problem is you will get a child someday and they will learn from you…do you really wan them to learn not to have something to pursue ?

*AMAZED*

ku akui aku memang cemburu

setiap kali dengar namanya kau sebut

tapi ku tak pernah bisa

melakukan apa yang seharusnya ku lakukan

karena memang kau bukan miliku

ku akui aku memang merindukanmu

meski ternyata tak pernah kau merindukanku

tapi ku tak pernah bisa

melakukan apa yang seharusnya ku inginkan

karena memang kau bukan miliku

sesungguhnya ku tak rela

jika kau tetap bersama dirinya

hempaskan cinta yang ku beri

semampunya ku mencoba

tetap setia menjaga segalanya

demi cinta yang tak pernah berakhir

ku akui aku merindukanmu

meski ternyata tak pernah kau merindukanku

tapi ku tak pernah bisa

melakukan apa yang seharusnya ku inginkan

karena memang kau bukan miliku

sesungguhnya ku tak rela

jika kau tetap bersama dirinya

hempaskan cinta yang ku beri

semampunya ku mencoba

tetap setia menjaga segalanya

demi cinta yang tak pernah berakhir 2X

silahkan dapatkan mp3nya di sini

This song always be my most favourite and inspirational song ever.It really lift my spirit up when i’m down or failing forward.

I could shed a tears if i hear this song in my deepest darkest hour.

Funny how a song could make me get up and take the fight again.

I think we all need one of this songs, a song that will always bring you spirit to face all the challanges to strife for the better you.

This Song is a kind of affirmation for me,and a magic mantra indeed.

Thank you gloria

REACH

Some dreams live on in time forever
Those dreams, you want with all
Your heart

And I’ll do whatever it takes
Follow through with the promise I made
Put it all on the line
What I hoped for at last would be mine

If I could reach, higher
Just for one moment touch the sky
From that one moment
In my life
I’m gonna be stronger
Know that I’ve tried my
Very best
I’d put my spirit to the test
If I could reach

Some days are meant to be
Remembered
Those days we rise above
The stars

So I’ll go the distance
This time
Seeing more the higher
I climb
That the more I believe
All the more that this
Dream will be mine

If I could reach, higher
Just for one moment touch the sky
From that one moment
In my life

I’m gonna be stronger
Know that I’ve tried my
Very best
I’d put my spirit to the test
If I could reach

If I could reach, higher
Just for one moment touch the sky
From that one moment
In my life

I’m gonna be stronger
I’m gonna be so much stronger
Yes I am
I put my spirit to the test

If I could reach, higher
If I could, if I could,
If I could reach
Reach, I’d reach, I’d reach
I’d reach, I’d reach so
Much higher
Be stronger

BY: GLORIA ESTEFAN