BAD FOOD
A Doctor was addressing a large audiense:
"The material we put into our stomach is enough to have killed most of us sitting here,years ago.Red meat is awful, Softdring will corrode your stomach lining."
"Chinese food is loaded with MSG,high fat diet can be disastrous,and none of us realizes the long term harm caused by the germs in our drinking water."
"But there is the most dangerous of all and we all have,or will,eat it".
"Can anyone here tell me what food it is that causes the most grief and suffering for years after eating it ?"
After severall second of quiet, a 75 years old man in the front row raise his hand, and soflty said " Wedding Cake ?"
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It’s sad that a lot of jokes about wedding is negative jokes.
Seems like when people don’t have enough terrible things in life they tend to get married ^_^.
Marriage is like a next things we have to do in life, that full of diluded person who think, that they will happy when there is someone to live with them.
On the contrary if they cannot handle themself very well then,it will mean they just double their trouble they have to face in their life.
What we need to have if we want to have a successful mariage ?
I think a common thinking about how to solve problems that will comes around when we live together.
A common understanding about basic/small things that your spouse will do, because small things sometimes end up in a BIG fight.
A lot of respect and forgiveness, for sometimes our partner do something "Idiotic".
A mix point of view about a lot of things will help us not to judge everything first handedly.
Talk softly when you are in anger will always helpful.I learn it from my ex-girlfriend.
Understand that you are not married with a perfect being,so, stupid things will always happen and you just have to let it go and walk again.
Understand that your partner is an emosional being…there is no such thing that "i will never get mad bla..bla…bla".
Vice versa, the "i will not gonna hurt you" line most definetly doesn’t work at all.Because hurt and happiness is a by product of your judgement about things…and its deffinetly not yours.
When emotion is involved try to understand that it doesn’t have a moral value in it.Being sad is not good or wrong it’s just that…sad.
People tends to fight….so make sure you are not in the same ring.Walk out and solve the problem latter on when your partner already take a shower and put their "boxing gloves" in the locker.
Being in love doesn’t mean you have to agree on everything they said..or done.Being in love means you can talk out of it and still can make them smile and tell you that they really lucky to have you by their side.
Marriage is not a barter of love….not even a barter of time and space.Marriage is a chance and also a decission to learn to face others after you already conquer yourself.
How can you love others if you cannot love yourself,how can you feed others if you still hungry ?
Please beleive me that like all the beings on earth (watch "Jurrasic Park"), human always can find their way out of something (even wedding vow).So don’t rely on it.Try to Trust your partner for the quality they have…sometimes it’s the best bet you can play.
Don’t close all your relationship with others, it may help you when the going get’s tough…but choose wisely.
"The enemy of a GREAT life is a good life"
Gile yeh kesannya gue kaya penasihat pernikahan ajah…padahal pacaran juga belom ^_^.Egh itu tulisan diatas asli loh gue yang ketik…bukan hasil copy paste dari artikel (walaupun gue banyak baca artikel).Semoga membantu.
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